8/20/2018

Your mouth stinks


Having a bad breath diminishes your confidence to talk in public. It helps you to minimize the way you talk,where to talk and when to talk . It doesn't allow you to blab and rant unnecessary.

There are a lot of people out there who literally talk anyhow,they do not even know the right time to talk or where to talk. They feel they have the right to talk. Yeah!!! We all have this perceception that we have what we call“ freedom of expression" but mind you , it's not applicable in all cases.
Looking at this scenario,you are passing by and you happened to see an event that caught your attention.

 A scenario where two grown men were exchanging blows and words. As a an orator,you walked in uninvited and start advising them, telling them how uncultured they were, telling them how disappointed you were at them..blah! Blah! Blah! Blah!They might even quit fighting each other and pounce on you.
Many people loves being talked at. They love being told how stinky their breath is whenever they talk. Me me

 What do you do to avoid this? All you have to do is to respect yourself and talk when occasion demands.
You can imagine two ladies exchanging words. The other lady is calm and picky with her words while the other lady talks however she likes without filtering her words.

The lady that talks anyhow thinks she can talk and insult very well. Kudos to her. When she starts talking gibberish and the other lady opens her mouth and tells her;“ please shut it. Your mouth stinks. " What an insult. This alone has covered all the insults she has been rendering upon the picky lady.

She will feel ashamed and will keep quiet immediately. I think this is a tool that can be used on people who thinks they “can talk". I admire quiet people so much because they know when to talk and how to structure their words wisely. Have you noticed that in a meeting, when everyone is busy raising up their points in a disorganized order. No one will really listen because it is not organised and too many people are talking at the same time.

Amongst them all,one person will never say a word until they are done “blabbing" and the person will raise his/her voice and say“i have something to say". What happens? They will all be interested in what the person has to say because they have never heard a word from the person. That's what I really admire about quiet people.

They talk with wisdom compared to people who always want to talk and talk out of point.

In essence, learn when to talk and when not to talk so as to avoid being a victim of “ your mouth  stinks" because it is really shameful to be told that. Your mouth might not really be stinking but it is the fastest way to stop someone from saying nonsense.

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