Single at Home, Marrried in School

In many  Nigerian universities, the habit of students living together is really trending. When you walk into some universities in Nigeria, you will find out that most students have actually cultivated the habit of living together with the notion that they are married since they are already living together.

It's so sad to see the rate at which girls move in with their boyfriends even though they know that these boys have nothing to offer. They will even pack all their loads like they are moving into their husband's house. These practice has become a trend  that most girls find it interesting and appealing. They believe that as long as you are dating him, you are already married to him.

When it's time to go home, you hardly visit your parents. They only see you once in a blue moon because you are married. When you go home finally, you behave like you don't have a husband in school, meanwhile you one.

Hello ladies! We need to wake up. These boys they are moving in with barely feeds himself, buy stuffs for himself or even take good care of himself. He might even be struggling to make good grades. He  can't offer you security when you need it, he depends on his parents for monthly allowance, but you still stick with him even when you know you both are not going nowhere.

Remember that your parents sent you to school to make them proud not to go about following one guy that can't put food on your table even when you eventually gets married to him.  Your parents paid so much and went through a lot to send you to school. You might be making good grades but the guy himself isn't.

It's so sad to see how  most guys disrespect some girls just because you guys are living under the disguise of being married. He touches you in areas that are inapprioprate ,he calls you his lover, and you too sheepishly reply  him back; ' yes love'. He is your lover and he can't even take good care of himself. He sags and you call that swag. You trip for him each time you see him sagging because you think he has swag. Whoa! Surprisingly you don't know he is just growing and don't know what he wants yet, not even you. He doesn't even know if he wants you.

 You both continued living as couple, you buy almost everything you need in the house, from food down to clothings, he says he loves you and you will smile and say the same thing. For four years, you both had lived together  and do all the things that married people usually do.You will say that you are sleeping with just one guy, and you are keeping your body just for him, that's why you can't sleep around, you are actually sleeping with him even when you aren't sleeping around.

Before graduation, you both are planning on how you will spend your lives after graduation. Finally you both graduated and he left you because his life just started. You wasted four years of your life living with a boy who just became a man. Ladies we need to grow up and stop allowing the opposite sex take advantage of us. Remain beautiful and unique.